John Reel

Conflict Mediator, Teacher, Speaker

Conflict Fixed Fast

I help time-strapped professionals quickly resolve personal conflict and heal relationships, so you can be more focused and effective at work, and come home to peace and connection.

Most clients experience dramatic shifts in the first 1–2 sessions, and work through all their issues together within a couple of months.

The Conflict Fixed Framework:

1. Heals Divides

Ends the cycle of tension, hurts, and miscommunication that keeps you stuck, distracted, and separate.

2. Deepens Connection

Rekindles understanding, trust, and clarity, so you stop walking on eggshells and grow closer.

3. Solves Issues

Builds a system that continually gets your needs met so you move forward with peace and ease.

Hi, I'm John

I'm a specialized conflict mediator with an effective framework based in Nonviolent Communication (NVC) and Relationship Coaching that quickly connects people, resolves conflicts, and eliminates future escalations.

My "super-power" is guiding you to deeply hear and understand each other, without blame. I make it easy for you to connect from the heart to see each other's pain, hopes, and needs... before connecting from the head to find solutions (that actually work) to stop further pain and to meet everyone's needs.

This process is extremely fast, connecting, and healing. Nearly all my clients almost immediately feel hope and space to breathe again and see real change in just a few sessions.

If you both commit to showing up, I'll help you connect on a whole new level. Once we untangle the conflict, you’ll be amazed at how much easier everything else becomes, at home, at work, and in life.

Schedule a call to start the process of healing today!

Real Stories: From Breaking Up to Reconnected

This married couple had been having the same series of fights for 17 years, had a terrible experience with BetterHelp, and and announced to the family it was over.

After six sessions things were much better. He was able to work consistently for the first time since all this started and they moved on to solving issues with extended family.

"From day one you made me comfortable, listened objectively, and made it clear you weren't taking sides. You're more relatable. You set a comfortable environment that makes it easy to open up to."
"For a very long time, I was skeptical and resistant, and thought I could fix our problems on our own and didn't need help. Working with you has made me understand (my partner) and myself better. It's made us stronger".
"We accomplish something every session. You can translate to either one of us what the other is saying, so we can understand each other better."
"We never would have been able to figure out how to say things like this if it weren't for you guiding us."
"I'm able to sleep now!"
"I'm very thankful and appreciative for what you do, and I have no doubt that you'll be able to help so many more people, so thank you. You're so good at this."

After 21 years of marriage, the topic of splitting up came up, and it was really easy to feel resentment. After 4 sessions:

"We've been getting along great!"
It "brought a different quality of intention to our relationship that we hadn't had before."
"We made it important to... be present, and think about each other, and appreciate each other."
There's a "greater sense of ease... We now can talk about things, that before... I was afraid of bringing up."

This married couple was referred to me after going to counselling where “nothing really progressed” and they were avoiding conversations “like the plague”.

We "got control of our life and relationship."
We got to a place where "we may not always agree on the issue, but we can understand each other's feelings, wants, needs, all of that."
We have "meaningful conversations with each other that make us want to talk to each other."

100% Money-Back Guarantee

I want you to be comfortable trying me and my methods out, so I only keep your first payment if I'm the right fit.

If you're not getting the results you want, or are unhappy for any reason after the first or second session, just let me know, and you will get all your money back, with my thanks.

Zero financial risk. A happier relationship to gain!