johnreel.com

Hi, I’m Relationship Coach John.

I'll help you communicate, resolve your conflicts, and build your best life together.

Do your talks turn into fights? Can’t come to agreements? Don’t see a path forward? I can help!

I’ll guide you to share with each other in connecting ways so you both really hear each other, understand each other’s deep feelings and needs, heal old pain, reconcile differences, and solve issues.

And I’ll help you create a vision, strategies, and action steps you can both fully agree to so you can both move forward getting your needs met.

CASE STUDY:

HEADED FOR “DIVORCE, DEFINITELY”

This married couple was referred to me after going to counselling where “nothing really progressed”. They were avoiding conversations “like the plague”, and thought their relationship was headed for divorce.

WHAT CHANGED:

CASE STUDY:

A LOT OF “PAIN, LONELINESS, AND DISCONNECTION”

After 21 years of marriage, the topic of splitting up came up, and it was really easy to feel resentment. They knew they couldn’t go on without getting support. Things dramatically shifted by the fourth session.

WHAT CHANGED:

RELATIONSHIP MEDIATION & COACHING

NOT THERAPY…

HARMONIC MEDIATION

Harmonic Mediation is an empathic approach based in Nonviolent  Communication to help people deeply understand each other through careful listening, reflecting what each other says, and uncovering the underlying feelings, needs, and requests people have of each other.

It is a highly effective method of resolving conflict peacefully. 

BUILD EMPATHY

Build empathy and deeply understand, see, and know each other.

COMMUNICATE

Practice listening, reflecting, and truly hearing each other.

MAKE AGREEMENTS

Create workable agreements that care for everyone’s needs.

BUILD EMPATHY

Build empathy and deeply understand, see, and know each other.

COMBINED WITH…

RADICAL RELATIONSHIP COACHING

Radical Relationship Coaching helps you create a shared vision of your best life together and supports you in finding creative ways of moving forward and achieving that vision by identifying areas for improvement, setting achievable goals, and developing a tailored action plan to enhance relationship satisfaction.

SHARED VISION

Create a vision of your best life to work toward together as a team.

SET GOALS

Create specific goals for what you want to achieve as a couple.

ACTION STEPS

Create detailed plans of who will do what and when to reach your goals.

BOND & CONNECT

Become a bonded, loving team that keeps getting better.

Here's what we'll do:

I help couples, families, friends, and colleagues learn, practice, and adopt these and other relationship skills that are critical to living in harmony. I want you to quickly become empowered to connect, function like a team, and confidently make your relationship function and thrive on your own.

A handful of clients at a time:

You get more personalized attention because I focus on just a few people at a time. 

All meetings are on Zoom:

I work online, so all sessions are done on video calls. You can book sessions on a schedule, change them weekly, or just book as needed. Whatever serves you best.

No financial contract:

You don’t need to commit to paying me for months. Instead, I will support you as needed. If you find sessions valuable, you can buy and book more, and you can stop booking without notice.

Money-back guarantee:

I only want you to give me money because you are getting the value and change you want, you want to work with me, and you want to show your appreciation. If either of us thinks it’s not quite a fit after the first session, your money is refunded.


After those sessions, you can pre-pay for more sessions. If you need or want the money back for any reason, I’ll refund the unused portion. (So, if you pre-pay for 4 sessions, use 3, and want your unused money back, I’ll refund the 1 unused session.)